ASHLYN VICTORIA PHOTOGRAPHY
PLANNING YOUR WEDDING FOR PERFECT PHOTOS
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first looks, timelines, details & more!
A NOTE ABOUT THIS GUIDE
I'm so excited to be working with you and I can’t wait to get to know you better over the next several months! I know photography is one of the larger investments you're making for your wedding day and I'm so honored you chose to work with me!
Whether you're working with a wedding planner or you're planning your wedding by yourself, there are likely still a lot of moving pieces left leading up to your big day.
Having photographed lots of weddings over the past few years, I tend to get asked the same things over and over again. So I thought it would be beneficial if I put together a guide that walks you through everything from timelines to engagement sessions to inclement weather.
Thank you again for choosing to work with me and please don't hesitate to let me know if I can offer any additional guidance throughout the wedding planning process!
xoxo - Ashlyn
I’m a big fan of engagement sessions for a few reasons. Not only do they allow you to get comfortable in front of the camera, they also give you the opportunity to showcase your personalities in a more casual setting that is significant to the two of you. I've created an entire page dedicated to outfit tips, location ideas, timing considerations and more!
WHY THEY ARE IMPORTANT
There's a big difference between looking at yourself in the mirror at a hair and makeup trial and actually seeing how that hair holds up in the elements and how that makeup photographs. When it comes to being confident in your choices on your wedding day, photos are invaluable!
If you're considering a Bridal Portrait Session, I recommend a full trial run of hair, nails, makeup and your bouquet. I typically spend 1 hour shooting at bridal sessions and it's nice to have something to hold to make your hands feel a little less awkward!
When it comes to choosing a location for your bridal portrait session, I recommend using locations that are well manicured, clean, and have great variety in indoor and outdoor locations.
BRIDAL PORTRAIT SESSION CHECKLIST
Wedding venues are usually a wonderful place to start - especially historic homes and resorts that have well manicured areas. We want to keep your dress as clean as possible and still get a lot of amazing images inside and outside.
When it comes to selecting a date for your bridal portrait session, another great thing to keep in mind is the weather. In order to avoid being too hot during the summer months or too cold during the winter months, I highly recommend Spring and Fall. However, I'll shoot anytime and anywhere there's great light!
Many venues charge a fee for portrait sessions. Although inconvenient, the fee is often worth it in order to have use of their getting ready room and other venue services. We typically have to work with the venues on times, but I love to shoot bridal portraits in the afternoon as late as we can to get that softer afternoon light. However, if your venue has strict hours, I am happy to work with their allotted times.
Contact me to schedule your bridal portrait session!
the first look
IS IT RIGHT FOR YOU?
That moment the Bride and Groom see each other for the first time on their wedding day is magical. And this is true whether the couple chooses to wait until the bride walks down the aisle or chooses to do a “first look’ prior to the ceremony.
First looks—a private moment couples choose to spend together prior to the wedding ceremony—have become more popular over the last few years. While I consider myself someone who values tradition, there are definitely a few good reasons to consider a first look. Here are 3 reasons to consider a ‘first look’:
1. A FIRST LOOK CUTS THROUGH THE CHAOS OF THE DAY.
Once the ceremony begins, the day takes off quickly. A ‘first look’ is an opportunity to enjoy some quiet time alone, enjoy each other’s company, and reflect on all this day means before your day takes off.
Wedding days can be a whirlwind and they tend to fly by. There’s much to do, and a lot of people to see and to catch up with. We always encourage our couples to take a few minutes every so often during their wedding to stop and soak in everything that’s happening.
2. IT MAKES MORE TIME FOR PICTURES WITHOUT SACRIFICING COCKTAIL HOUR.
When there is no first look, the majority of the pictures have to be taken after the ceremony. Family pictures are generally done as soon as the ceremony ends because it’s the easiest time to round everyone up. Next up is full bridal party, and then bride and groom portraits. This generally runs into cocktail hour.
A first look opens up time prior to the ceremony for full bridal party pictures and, sometimes, for a few bride and groom portraits (although we prefer to do bride and groom portraits at sunset). This allows the couple to get the most out of cocktail hour, which makes the rest of the evening feel less rushed.
3. AVOID POSSIBLE BAD WEATHER AND HAVE TIME TO FRESHEN-UP AFTER CRYING
If you’re expecting poor weather on your wedding day, it might be best to plan on a first look because it gives you more options for pictures. If it’s pouring rain after the ceremony, you’ll be thankful you had pictures done in advance.
And this reason is for all you cryers out there. If you know the tears are going to fly the first time you see your other half the day of your wedding, a first look will give you time to freshen up before the ceremony.
First look or not, the first time you see each other on your wedding day will be special.
BUILDING THE PERFECT
wedding day timeline
WHETHER YOU'RE PLANNING A FIRST LOOK OR STICKING WITH TRADITION AND NOT SEEING YOUR GROOM UNTIL YOU WALK DOWN THE AISLE, I HAVE TIPS TO HELP MAKE PLANNING YOUR TIMELINE AS EASY AS POSSIBLE!
Whether you choose to do a first look or the traditional "no see before the ceremony" I will work with you on making sure you have the best timeline and plan for images.
If you're choosing to go traditional, you'll need two different sets of photo times: images taken before the ceremony and images taken after the ceremony.
You'll need to plan for about one hour of pre-ceremony bridal photos (bridesmaids and bride's portraits) and about one hour of pre-ceremony groom photos (groomsmen and groom's portraits) at separate times. You'll also need 15 minutes of combined bridal party portraits, 30 minutes of combined family portraits and at least 30 - 45 minutes of couple's portraits after the ceremony if you're not doing any portraits together until after the ceremony.
If you're doing a first look, bridal photos can be done all at one time, taking an average total of 1 - 1.5 hours pre-ceremony (although I also LOVE grabbing just the two of you for a few additional bride and groom photos at sunset!) We will still do family formal photos after the ceremony, set aside at least 30 minutes (maybe more depending on your family formal list).
If you choose a traditional aisle reveal, all I ask is that you keep your ceremony time in mind when planning your wedding.
If you're planning a sunset ceremony or an evening ceremony, it's best to do all photos before the wedding, as daylight is crucial to getting amazing portraits for your families, bridal party and your couples portraits. Making sure we have enough time while the sun is up is a great way to make the traditional ceremony work.
If the forecast is calling for rain, fear not because rainy days can still be beautiful!
If rain is in the forecast, I recommend ordering a few clear umbrellas on Amazon. It also might be good to re-evaluate portrait locations to make sure we can still shoot in natural light - even if it means heading offsite. If you don't own a pair of cute rain shoes, now may be a great time to order a pair - even if you're just wearing them in between shooting locations.
If you're not working with a planner, it might also be a good idea to check in with your entire vendor team to make sure they're aware of the weather. Hair and makeup may need to be tweaked to withstand humidity and if your wedding is outdoors, DJs and bands may need to take extra precaution to protect their gear. A quality rental team can also minimize the amount of mud at outdoor events.
While I can't guarantee that rain on your wedding day is good luck, we can put a plan in place to ensure a beautiful day and beautiful images.
Rainy day weddings may require a little more flexibility and creativity, but there isn't any reason why they can't be as beautiful and as joyful as sunny weddings!
wedding day details
IT'S ALL IN THE DETAILS
I LOVE capturing all the little details you've carefully chosen to be a part of your wedding day! Once I arrive at your wedding, I need about 30 minutes to capture and style details. I recommend choosing a getting ready location filled with natural light and, if possible, please keep the space free from trash and clutter.
It would be wonderful if you could put all of your rings, jewelry, shoes, veil, purse, perfume, invitations and other keepsakes together in one spot for me. Please unwrap your dress but don't worry about styling it - I'll hang it in a beautiful spot!
SOME QUICK BRIDAL DETAILS TO CONSIDER
⬜️RINGS (BOTH ENGAGEMENT AND WEDDING)
Remember to set out any other sentimental keepsakes you would like to include! Also: I'd love to have a few cuts of the florals you'll be using throughout your wedding day. If your florist can supply me with a small bucket of extra pieces I can incorporate those in your detail shots.
A NOTE ABOUT
When I can, I always try to take a photo of your rings while you're getting ready. If possible, try to have your engagement and wedding rings cleaned or clean them yourself. To clean at home, soak your ring in warm water with dishwashing soap for 20 to 40 minutes. Then gently brush the stone with a soft toothbrush, rinse and repeat if needed.
YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY, DRESSED UP AND TOGETHER
For family portraits, I’ll place you in the center of a large group photo with all of your grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, godparents, etc. And then I’ll remove the extended family so it’s just grandparents, parents and siblings.
I’ll keep removing family members and switch a few closer family members in and out so we get photos of you and your parents, you and your siblings, some with the groom and your family, etc. Then I’ll repeat the process with your spouse's family. The whole thing will go quicker and smoother if you let family know how the portrait process will work ahead of time.
When I send out my pre-wedding questionnaire, I'll ask you for a list of specific groupings, special situations (such as divorces or handicapped family members & more), but if you want to start brainstorming photos in the meantime, you'll find my typical list below.
⬜️Bride + Groom + Bride's Extended Family
⬜️Bride + Groom + Bride's Parents + Siblings + Grandparents
⬜️Bride + Groom + Bride's Parents + Siblings
⬜️Bride + Groom + Bride's Parents
⬜️Bride + Groom + Bride's Siblings
⬜️Bride + Bride's Parents
⬜️Bride + Bride's Grandparents
⬜️Bride + Bride's Mom
⬜️Bride + Bride's Dad
⬜️Bride + Groom + Groom's Extended Family
⬜️Bride + Groom + Groom's Parents + Siblings + Grandparents
⬜️Bride + Groom + Groom's Parents + Siblings
⬜️Bride + Groom + Groom's Parents
⬜️Bride + Groom + Groom's Siblings
⬜️Groom + Groom's Parents
⬜️Groom + Groom's Grandparents
⬜️Groom + Groom's Mom
⬜️Groom + Groom's Dad
Please note that this list is just a starting point and that I'm happy to take any requested family portraits as long as time allows!
AT LEAST DURING THE CEREMONY!
If you've been to a wedding recently, you may have seen a sign from the happy couple asking for their guests to remain "unplugged" during the ceremony.
And while it might seem like a strange requests to ask guests to put down their phones, there's a pretty good reason for it! You made a big investment in photography and I'm sure one of the last things you want on your wedding day is for our photos of your ceremony to be filled with obtrusive iPhones, iPads and relatives standing in the aisle with their own cameras. In order to help me do the best possible job capturing your wedding, I recommend asking guests to unplug during the ceremony.
If you're getting married in the summer months, a quick snack or small lunch before portraits is always a good idea for you and your bridal party to avoid hungry bellies and passing out!
If you're planning on having a first look with your bridal party or a parent, they often feel more comfortable being fully dressed in their wedding attire.
It's best to have a breakdown of what family portraits you'd like and it's good if both sides of the family have a chance to have their input on what portraits they'd like. I will make sure we shoot things in a good order.
If it's going to be hot, a cooler of cold waters and frozen washcloths can help keep a wedding party cool - especially if your men are wearing lots of layers.
If your reception is at a separate venue, add some "fluff time" so that I can run over to the venue to capture it while it's still "untouched" by guests.
During the cocktail hour and the reception, I'll follow you around the whole time. Anytime you'd like a photo with someone, grab my attention. I love being your personal paparazzi!
Make sure you have your bouquet delivered in time to make an appearance for the detail shots and for your first look. Often they are delivered in water and need to be dried off before use. Having towels handy can help.
I always recommend the bride go into hiding at least 30 minutes before the ceremony time at the absolute latest. Guests like to arrive early to weddings.
I'd love to help you plan your timeline. If you'd like my input, don't hesitate to email or call!
THE PERFECT WAY TO REMEMBER YOUR WEDDING
One of the best ways to make your wedding memories last is by ordering an album. These high quality professionally designed albums come in a variety of linen & leather colors. These aren’t the same albums your parents' wedding photos came in. They’re modern, lay perfectly flat and look incredible on a coffee table.
I'M SO EXCITED TO WORK TOGETHER!
I can't wait to start planning with you and getting to know you! If you haven't scheduled your engagement session yet, let's get that in the books. Feel free to email me any time at
If you have any questions or would just like to chat, I'm here for you. I hope this guide helps make the process of planning your wedding photo details much easier and less stressful. I can't wait to see you soon! Thank you so much for taking the time to read through my guide!